"As a player, a lot of times you see it coming," LaRoche said. "There's talk about it, it's out there, it's advertised, so weeks ahead of time, it's a possibility. And a lot of times, when those rumors start flying, a GM, somebody will bring you in and explain the situation. There's a reason that you see something come across the board, you know, 'So-and-so might be traded.' Most of the time, there's some truth to that somewhere. "The first time I got traded, I expected it. (The Pirates) were trying to make some moves and my name was out there, so it wasn't a shock. And then a week later, total shock. It popped up out of nowhere. So again, from the player's side, it just totally depends on what's leading up to that and whether you have a little bit of a heads up." Often, LaRoche said, a trade can be a chance for a bit of a fresh start. A player on a losing streak can find himself thrust into a playoff race, or a guy struggling to get things going in one city can be sparked by a trade to a new team. "It can be a good thing. It can be guys need a change of scenery," LaRoche said. "Some guys just hit a patch where they're just kind of stale in their careers and they go somewhere else and it rejuvenates them. They may go to a contender and spark something new. Go to a new coach that tweaks something and your career takes off. So just depends how you look at it. "Most young guys when they get traded, they're like, 'This team doesn't want me.' And really, the right way to look at it is, another team wanted you that much. A lot of the time, a team wanted you that much that they gave up that much to get you." Kurt Suzuki's trade to the Nats last year actually came Aug. 3, three days after the non-waiver deadline had passed. You don't usually see many trades after July 31 because players need to pass through waivers unclaimed in order for teams to have freedom to shop them to any other squad, but in some ways, Suzuki expected to be dealt even after the non-waiver deadline was in the rear-view mirror. "My agent said the (non-waiver) deadline wasn't my deadline because of my contract and stuff like that," Suzuki said. "He said I was going to clear waivers, so he said there's always going to be a chance for you. And sure enough (the A's) traded for (catcher George) Kottaras. And so I said, 'I gotta be traded soon.' Three days later, I think, I got traded." Like with Hairston, Suzuki had a young family that he needed to think about immediately after the trade, making things even more complicated. His wife and daughter were living with him out on the West Coast when he was dealt, and they then needed to quickly make a decision about how they'd handle a cross-country move. "That took me a little bit to get comfortable," Suzuki said with a smile. "I had a house to move out of with (stuff) everywhere, because of my daughter. My wife rented a U-Haul, threw everything in there, went down south and that day I found out, I packed whatever clothes I could fit in my bag and went out here (to D.C.). And then she came out like three weeks, four weeks later. So I was away from my daughter for like a month. So that was kinda tough. It wasn't the smoothest sailing. It was tough, but we managed." Suzuki called the deal "bittersweet," because he was leaving the only organization he'd ever known, but joining one where he'd get more playing time. That was exactly what Wilson Ramos felt two days before the deadline in 2010, when he was shipped to D.C. by the Twins, the organization that had signed him in 2004.
Ramos, unlike the other three guys I interviewed for this story, was the unproven piece in his trade. He had played just seven big league games with the Twins before they dealt him for closer Matt Capps, and was stuck behind All-Star catcher Joe Mauer on the depth chart. Playing time was at a minimum in Minnesota, but he was to be the catcher of the future in D.C. "For players, when you play for a long time with one organization, you never think about trades," Ramos said. "When I wasn't to play with the Twins, I hear about possible trades for me. The day I get traded, it was a little bit sad, but that was good for my career. So I get excited at one point, 'I'm going to another team, I'm getting an opportunity to play in the big leagues.' "So that's what we want. The other guys, they're thinking about trades right now. They have to clear their mind and just think about that's a good opportunity if they get traded." The toughest part about the trade, Ramos says, was meeting an entire new group of players, coaches and front office staffers and getting acclimated in a new environment. That can be tough, especially for a guy who was still trying to get comfortable with the English language, "but it's not bad for us, because another door is open," Ramos said. "Come through." "I understand, when Joe Mauer signed the big contract, that say to me, 'That door is closed for me.' So if I play in the big leagues with this team, I will be the backup. So when I get traded, I get a little excited because this team give me an opportunity to play in the big leagues. "That's what I want. That's the dream for all players."